Mr.Sample wrote: First of all, this film/story IS a "fairy tale" - if I get it right what you mean by this, in this case, degrading phrase - however dark and grim it is. It isn't like Pan's Labyrinth, in which the supernatural elements we see constitute a haven where Ophelia can escape from the otherwise unbearable cruelty of reality. Those all are just products of the protagonist's imagination. Whereas in LTROI everything is "real". The parallelism between some aspects of the movie and human nature doesn't make it less of a "fairy tale". This is a factor that every worthwhile story has in order to bear some depth and lesson. Above all, fairy tales do. (They are edifying, that's why they are written for children, who are in need of such instructions due to their lack of life experience.) Being what you call a "fairy tale" doesn't exclude the possibility of being a work of art. On that basis, a lot of movie and book - widely considered as art - should be deprived of that label.
The intention of LTROI is - besides JAL's revenge on his bullies - to captivate the viewer/reader with the love of Eli and Oskar. All the horror and gloom is the balance that prevents the movie/book from being too one-sided and sentimental, while it emphasizes the beauty and innocence of the two mains' unconditional love for eachother. If you care about Eli's "harmful effects"on society instead of caring about her and Oskar's happiness, LTROI hasn't succeeded in your case.
And yup, I'm sure that JAL'd rather regard an epilogue in which Oskar and Eli fulfill their love as happy then one in which things work out for the benefit of humanity.
C'mon, it's just fiction. Who gives a shit about mankind? (Not that I'd anyway...)
Since there is obviously not the slightest chance of any mutual understanding there is no point continuing this discussion. Almost nothing that you say has any relevance to what I have been saying. "Harmful effects" on society do not concern me. I never wrote anything derogatory about fairy tales - many of them are works of art.
What I am objecting is your using words like "love" and "happy" and other things when you do not mean that at all. Your last sentences are perfect example of that kind of thing. They make any discussion between us quite pointless. (Presumably next time you will tell us you don't give a shit about yourself... I would like to see that put to a test).
But as we are on this, I have a question. Why didn't Alfredson make Eli and Oskar ugly like Lacke and his crowd, and their victims beautiful, cute and loveable? What if Lina was playing one of Eli's victims and the actors who play Lacke and Virginia played Oskar and Eli? Their love could be so pure...
By the way, there is a much better and much more famous novel with some similar themes: love, 12 year old girl, and even a human monster. The monster really loves the girl and many careless readers even sympathise with the monster or think that the author does. But actually they are quite wrong and only think so because they are careless and miss or misunderstand some key evidence and thus are themselves manipulated by the monster. Its a much more subtle book, of course.
I might write more about this again, but perhaps I won't. I doubt if would do anything for any mutual understanding so let's just agree we are just made of completely different stuff and end it here.

