Why did Hakan grope Eli?


Why did Hakan grope Eli?
I thought of this when reading another thread. When Hakan first meets Eli he puts his hand on her thigh (or something like that.) But Hakan likes little boys not little girls. And even though Eli is really a boy he wouldn't have known that the first time he saw him. Does it make sense for him to try to grope her like that?
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Re: Why did Hakan grope Eli?
If I have understood it correctly most pedophiles do not really limit themselves to one gender. The things they are attracted by are present in children regardless of gender. The things that make them children, not what makes them male or female. In the very first chapter we meet Håkan, it is clear that he is attracted by a little girl he passes by. While he does seem to prefer boys, he is clearly attracted to girls as well.
That is at least what I can tell from my basic knowledge in criminology and psychology. But that is just speculation, haven't studied pedophiles specificly.
That is at least what I can tell from my basic knowledge in criminology and psychology. But that is just speculation, haven't studied pedophiles specificly.
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Re: Why did Hakan grope Eli?
he sicking in the book 
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Re: Why did Hakan grope Eli?
Because Eli was beautiful and Hakan was beyond caring at that point. He'd reached the lowest rung.

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Re: Why did Hakan grope Eli?
Once Law & Order SVU (yeah, I know it's frakking L&O
) said preadolescence children are indifferent. They aren't developing male and female characteristic yet.
Once Grandmother gave her a little hood made of red velvet. Because it suited her so well, and she wanted to wear it all the time, she came to be known as Little Red Riding Hood
Re: Why did Hakan grope Eli?
I agree. He was drunk, disgusted in himself, and just waiting to die.a_contemplative_life wrote:Because Eli was beautiful and Hakan was beyond caring at that point. He'd reached the lowest rung.
Unlike the Blakeberg rat-pack, who chose to become alcoholics, Haken, like Eli, didn't have any choice in what he was.You can't cure paedophilia any more than you can cure homosexuality or vampireism for that matter. He could control it, but by the time he met Eli, he was way past caring about the consequences of his actions. I think he would have put his hand on anyone who sat next to him in the park that night. Like hopeless drunks often do.
Re: Why did Hakan grope Eli?
Hmm, a little bit off-topic but there's often a man that gets the same bus as me each morning- he wears a woolen hat, large glasses, has a round nose and carries a newspaper and black bag... I have to remind myself that Hakan is dead, let alone fictional
I'm sure he's not a paedophile though!
Re: Why did Hakan grope Eli?
That's funny. One day last week I rode the bus to work and there was this woman carrying a glass jar which was about 1/3 filled with some amber colored liquid. I immediately thought I hope that's not acid.Pevalwen wrote:Hmm, a little bit off-topic but there's often a man that gets the same bus as me each morning- he wears a woolen hat, large glasses, has a round nose and carries a newspaper and black bag... I have to remind myself that Hakan is dead, let alone fictionalI'm sure he's not a paedophile though!
Re: Why did Hakan grope Eli?
This would be Hakan's ultimate nightmare.
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Re: Why did Hakan grope Eli?
"I think Eli, just as me, is a fan of multicoloured equines. You need this to get through an eternity of bloodshed."
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