A question of taste, I guess. I regard Oskar on the brink of understanding/feeling sexuality, but not quite there yet. Earlier, in the basement reading Tommy's porno magazine, Oskar had learned about sex in school, and was getting curious about it. But he didn't know what it was. Even when studying the very instructive picture of the naked girl, he couldn't spot some hole he had learned should be there. So it was curiousness rather than sexual urge.lombano wrote:Though the conversation is mainly about love, in context 'How do they do it?' to me is clearly asking about gay sex. Surely a Swedish boy of twelve, who we know has seen porn, would know what sex is, even if ignorant of the mechanics of homosexual sex?drakkar wrote:A child asking his teacher about gay love doesnt qualify, IMO (here the author is wrong - Oskar doesnt ask the teacher about gay sex - he doesnt know what sex is).
I regard his questioning the teacher the same thing. I cannot see any sexuality in this, or real sexual urge, only eagerness to learn more. Eli had been in his bedroom several times, so I guess something was beginning to stir. Marie-Louise's answer to Oskar's question about what men do, is to explain him that love is detached from gender, even from sex (depending on how you read it - she calls it "man ingår förbund", "one makes make an alliance").
So in my world, the "Dining Horror Story"-label fits just as well on as the "Gay Horror Story". But that might be because I happen to fancy cooking and food making, and I'm not homosexual.


