Welcome Alice, it's great to see you're in the right place.I am so glad I found this site.
Brilliant idea about Elis' not showering by the way always great to see a new perspective yours' makes a lot of sense.


Welcome Alice, it's great to see you're in the right place.I am so glad I found this site.
BravoHotel wrote:Welcome Alice, it's great to see you're in the right place.I am so glad I found this site.
Brilliant idea about Elis' not showering by the way always great to see a new perspective yours' makes a lot of sense.
For adult women, I can't comment. In decades gone by, this is undoubtedly true when divorce was far less easily obtained.Alice?Maybe wrote:I have known many abused children, was in a psychiatric facility as a kid with several girls who had suffered years of abuse. These kids, for the most, didn't shower. It maybe some unconscious defense mechanism to make themselves les "desirable", something. I've known adult women who intentionally gained lots of weight to be less attractive to sexually abusive husbands.
She said this, and followed it immediately with a grimace, as I recall.Alice?Maybe wrote:We know that Eli was horribly abused, assaulted in the act that infected him. She tells Oskar that maybe the reason she has successfully survived for over 200 years was because she is small. She goes on to say that simply taking care of her was rarely the motivation.
What I remember from the novel is simply that she sat down on the bench next to him and started issuing him his marching orders. We don't know that she watched him for any length of time, but many of us certainly believe she scoped him out for a while before doing this. It's also possible she could just say "oh, I know one when I see one" after long experience.Alice?Maybe wrote:It certainly was not Hakan's primary motive. She chose him while he was being Aqualung, only eying lil boys instead of girls, in the park.
This is what many of us suspect, yes.Alice?Maybe wrote:She knew what he was and what motivated him. Perfect for her needs. So, no showering, stinking, to keep Hakan and others like him and their advances at bay.
Vampire decay...gkmoberg1 wrote:It might be a combination of both ideas. Mind, though, that Elias doesn't smell of the noisome quality of young boys (and perhaps young girls) who refrain from any sort of bathing - he _really_ carries an odor that takes Oskar back to memories of his sick and dying dog. This is not just a barrier to keep away H. or as a result of not seeing an importance in hygiene.

Yes, her odor is something of infection, dying.a_contemplative_life wrote:Vampire decay...gkmoberg1 wrote:It might be a combination of both ideas. Mind, though, that Elias doesn't smell of the noisome quality of young boys (and perhaps young girls) who refrain from any sort of bathing - he _really_ carries an odor that takes Oskar back to memories of his sick and dying dog. This is not just a barrier to keep away H. or as a result of not seeing an importance in hygiene.
I see this as she was trying to get close enough to Oskar to nom him, maybe the bad smell takes away from her hypnotic effect she tries on Oskar, because of how close she needs to get to bite him, this is before of course he catches her off guard and hugs her ruining her plan that is. After this she just likes to make the effort to be his friend.But regardless of where the odor originates we are still left with wondering as to why she doesn't wash it off until she develops a relationship with Oskar.