a warning to single people...

[TΛPETRVE]

Them.

[sweetgirl]

[sweetgirl]

I don't get why everyone is single, thats amazing i thought you all be married.

yessss mister we wont

[drakkar]

I'm married. My wife even like LTROI (like, not love), however I haven't brought her to reading any of JAL's books. Yet.
She will happily join me on a trip to Stockholm, but she doesn't see any point at all going to Blackeberg. I even tried to argue with "interesting architecture" but then she replies the Mac is crammed with photos from the place so it's OK with her

We're just a bunch of losers, Sweetgirl. *sigh*

Sorry Hume, but having taken in LTROI you don't qualify as a loser anymoe.

[armyofdorkness]

Myth: If your life is boring and without meaning all you need is an unconventional quirky impossibly cute girlfriend and suddenly all your problems will be fixed

Fact: Be a man, and stop thinking that a girlfriend is going to solve all of your problems for you.

After seeing numerous romcoms/chick flicks I quite often have to read the above quote to remind myself that the solution to the problem is usually not somebody else.

This is a delusion that single people usually seem to have. I had it myself. I honestly believed that finding a soul mate would solve all of my problems. I felt that I would become a confident and suave go-getter with all of his personal affairs in order and I would begin setting my sights on bigger and better things.

Well, I found my special someone and she's more than I ever thought I would have, but guess what? I still have all of my old problems. I still feel like a complete basket case. What's different now is I'm someone's basket case boyfriend. That's unfair to her and I'm always apologizing for being such a maladjusted jerk. She deserves better, but she doesn't want anyone else.

Finding someone does not solve your problems for you. You alone can do that. Going into a relationship with mountains of personal problems is just going to be baggage for the other person to deal with. Hopefully you're charming or attractive enough to make her (or him) stick around anyway.

[sweetgirl]

We're just a bunch of losers, Sweetgirl. *sigh*

WE ?

[sweetgirl]

you better stop for wolfchild locks this fourm

[sweetgirl]

nothing's there is no problem.

[sweetgirl]

your mean YOUR IN TROUBLE NOW!!!!!!!!

[sweetgirl]

back on topic.

why does it take a movie to relalize you need someone in your life.
truely if you really want someone you should be your self , give your all
no relationship should be 50/50 unless there something wrong. but i guess in the end its going to be 50/50.
life is not a movie or a fairytale. movies try to make relationships so perfect when there not in real life.
it sadden.
well yeah ! . soo!?